We, as Apostolics, more concisely as
Apostolics who believe in the biblical principles of holiness (2 Corinthians 7:1, Ephesians 4:24, 1Thessalonians
3:13, 1Thessalonians 4:7, Hebrews 12:14) have been unjustly
accused of being legalistic, and/or Pharisees by those whose views differ from
ours. While there may have been abuses in these areas by some individuals, I
fully intend to remain apart from those persons.
My personal thoughts on the subject of
holiness in dress are from a perspective of biblical scholarship, and a heart
of love. If God in His holy word tells me I need to do something in order to
have a closer relationship to Him, or to be saved, you can bet your bottom
dollar I’m going to do those things.
If I’m only doing those things to make
myself out as a more holy person than someone else, I’m doing it for the wrong
reasons and prove myself to be an unholy individual. This is brought out in:
Luke
18:10-14 Two men went up into the temple to pray;
the one a Pharisee, and the other a publican. 11: The Pharisee stood and prayed
thus with himself, God, I thank thee, that I am not as other men are,
extortioners, unjust, adulterers, or even as this publican. 12: I fast twice in
the week, I give tithes of all that I possess. 13: And the publican, standing
afar off, would not lift up so much as his eyes unto heaven, but smote upon his
breast, saying, God be merciful to me a sinner.14: I tell you, this man went
down to his house justified rather than the other: for every one that exalteth
himself shall be abased; and he that humbleth himself shall be exalted.
Self righteousness is putrid in the sight
of God. I believe that we should do the things which God has commanded us to
do. Not only those things relating to salvation, but also to holiness. I want
the most out of my relationship with God. I want to do everything possible to
increase my relationship with Him.
I want to serve God out of a heart of
love, not legalistic garbage. We need to keep in mind that anything we are
commanded to do in the bible is called doctrine, doctrine is law. The only
difference between the holiness movement and those who believe otherwise is the
amount of doctrine they believe. How much of God’s word they are willing to be
obedient to?
As an example, the bible lists several things
that need to be done in order to be saved. This is the short version and I have
plenty of scripture beyond what is listed to back up my position:
1.
You must believe in Jesus Christ, and that He is your
savior. (John 3:16)
2.
You must repent of your sins. (Acts 2:38)
3.
You must confess your sins to God (as a part of
repentance); and confess that Jesus Christ is your savior before men. (Matthew 10:32-33, Acts 19:18, Romans 10:9-10)
4.
You must have faith that Jesus Christ is able to; and
will save you. (Ephesians 2:8-9, Hebrews 11:6, 1John
5:4)
5.
You must be baptized by full immersion in the name of
Jesus Christ for the remission of your sins. (Mark
16:16, John 3:5, Acts 2:38)
6.
You must be baptized in the Holy Ghost with the initial
sign of speaking in other tongues as the Spirit gives the utterance. (John 3:5, Acts 1:4-5, Acts 2:16-18, 38).
Most people will tell you that all you
need to be saved it just “believe”. Even though in such a short lesson, and
there is far more scripture supporting my position, I have just proven
conclusively that there is more to being saved than just believing, people will
say I’m being legalistic for preaching the entire word of God. The same thing
goes with holiness. I will show you what the word of God shows on the subject
of holiness in dress, it’s up to you whether you want to believe God or men.
Again, I want to say that I live the life
of holiness out of a love for God, not out of a heart full of self
righteousness. I want to be obedient to the full word of God. I don’t want to
pick and choose what I want to believe. Would you really want God to do that
with your salvation?
Let’s start with Clothing:
Deuteronomy
22:5 The woman shall not wear
that which pertaineth unto a man, neither shall a man put on a woman's garment:
for all that do so are abomination unto the LORD thy God.
In American society, women wear dresses
and men wear pants. Many people will say they are wearing women’s pants, not
men’s. Yet you ask them about men’s dresses and immediately they are against
them. They say it’s sickening to even think about it. I say that it is no more
sickening than women’s pants.
Ask yourself, if it is sickening and
inappropriate for men to wear dresses, why is it appropriate and acceptable for
women to wear pants? What’s with the double standard? In the not too distant
past, it was considered sickening and inappropriate for women to wear pants.
This change only came about during WWII when women had to work in the
shipyards, and building aircraft for the war effort. Even after the war it was
still considered inappropriate for women to wear pants outside the work place.
Women who wore pants in public were considered “cheap”, “loose”, and certainly
not the kind you wanted to marry.
Another example, that men wear pants and
women wear dresses as appropriate attire in
There are also those who say that wearing
coulots are ok. Let’s define the differences between pants and dresses or
skirts. Dresses and skirts have only one leg hole, Pants have two leg holes,
Coulots have two leg holes, and therefore, they’re just baggy pants. Modern
coulots aren’t even baggy and no longer make an attempt to look like a skirt as
they did 20 or 30 years ago.
People have used the excuse that it is
more modest to wear coulots or pants to avoid wearing appropriate biblically
based attire. The excuse is that their job requires them to wear such clothing
in order to remain modest. I’m afraid it has been wrongly taught that modesty
matters above all things. Actually morality matters above all things. It’s an
abomination to God, and please keep in mind the abominable go to hell. (Revelation 21:8) If your profession requires that you wear inappropriate clothing to
remain modest, please change your profession.
Revelation
21:8 But the fearful, and
unbelieving, and the abominable,
and murderers, and whoremongers, and sorcerers, and idolaters, and all liars,
shall have their part in the lake which burneth with fire and brimstone: which
is the second death.
Let’s talk about the length
of a dress or men’s pants:
Exodus
28:42 And thou shalt make them linen
breeches to cover their nakedness; from the loins even unto the thighs they
shall reach:
This scripture was written to Aaron as a reference for
his sons, the priests. We are the kings and priests of this age; I believe we
are to dress as holy as they were since God never changes. We must remember the
Old Testament is but the types and shadows of what was to come. If we have any
doubts on a subject, we need to check out what the Old Testament says about it
as well. It might just clarify everything you’ve read in the New Testament.
We need to understand that not everything in the Old
Testament was done away with when Christ came. In fact, there are only three
things that passed away with the coming of Christ and his sacrifice for us on
the cross.
1. The sacrifice for sins: Hebrews 9:12 Neither by the blood of
goats and calves, but by his own blood he entered in once into the holy place,
having obtained eternal redemption for us.
2. The dietary laws: Acts 10:15 “What God hath cleansed, that call not
thou common.”
3. The Levitical Priesthood: 1Peter 2:9 But ye are a chosen
generation, a royal priesthood, an holy nation, a peculiar people; that ye
should shew forth the praises of him who hath called you out of darkness into
his marvellous light:
Exodus
28:42 makes it clear that we are to
wear clothes that cover the thigh. I believe that we should wear long enough
clothing to cover the thighs; and yet not allow a person to see between the
thighs while you are sitting down. This means that a woman’s dress should be
several inches below her knees so that when the dress/skirt pulls up as she
sits, she will not expose herself accidentally. I usually prefer mid-calf as a “recommendation”
so that there is plenty of room for error. If a woman is not sure in her heart
if her dress/skirt is long enough, she should err on the long side. Men should
just wear long pants as they are always appropriate attire and will certainly
scare far fewer women. J
Let’s look at what
Isaiah had to say about this.
Isaiah 47:2 Take the millstones, and grind meal: uncover
thy locks, make bare the leg, uncover the thigh, pass over the rivers.
Isaiah 47:3 Thy nakedness shall be uncovered, yea, thy
shame shall be seen: I will take vengeance, and I will not meet thee as a
man.
In this passage, Isaiah is talking
about what will happen to Babylon in punishment for her sins against Israel. In
this passage Isaiah equates the showing of the thigh or the leg as nakedness.
We need to be careful to cover up properly! Again, not to foolishly attempt to
earn our way into heaven, God forbid! But because we know it pleases the Lord,
and He has made it known to us through his word.
Another thought along these lines is that both sexes
should take care to wear their clothing loose enough that it doesn’t pull up
into body crevices. The only reason for wearing skin tight clothing is to
sexually stimulate the opposite sex. This type of stimulation is inappropriate
for a Christian. Trust me; the opposite sex will know if you are fit,
attractive, etcetera, whether or not you have on tight clothes.
The length of the sleeves is appropriate to consider
at this time as well. If the sleeves are too short, for example sleeveless, on
a woman’s blouse, men can see her undergarments when she raises her arms to
praise the Lord. Longer sleeves that are baggy will have the same effect. It’s
better to err on the side of extra length than to be immodest. My personal
preference is for the sleeve to end below the elbow; this gives room for all
but the baggiest sleeves and still keeps a person modest. Guys, the ladies
don’t need to be seeing your chest or hairy armpits either! It’s just as wrong
for you to show off yours as it is for her to show off hers.
One failure of the church today is for the older women
to teach the principles of modesty to the younger women. We are living in a
generation that has forgotten what modesty is, and bristles at the thought of
anyone disagreeing with their personal choice of clothing. We need to remember
that we, as Christians, no longer live for ourselves, but as the servants of
Christ. The servant doesn’t choose what they will wear, the master does.
Now let’s talk about makeup:
When it comes to makeup there are as many
excuses for wearing it as there are for wearing pants. “My skin is too oily”,
“It protects my face from sun burning”, or as one man said, “If the barn needs
painting you paint it”.
My personal opinion
is; no matter what it takes, I want to serve God his way and without excuses. I
feel for the woman whose husband was so shallow that he would refer to her as a
barn needing painted. We need to study the bible to find out what God’s word
says about makeup and those who wear it.
2 Kings 9:30 And when Jehu was come to Jezreel, Jezebel heard of
it; and she painted her face, and tired her head, and looked out at a window.
I think we all know what kind of woman
Jezebel was and I don’t think God would want any woman to emulate her. She was
ungodly, wicked, a murderer, a promiscuous woman. God used her as an example of
what a woman of God shouldn’t be. She was like an Old Testament antichrist
almost.
Let’s look at what Ezekial had to say about women who used makeup:
Ezekiel 23:40-44
40: And furthermore, that ye have sent for men to come
from far, unto whom a messenger was sent; and, lo, they came: for whom thou
didst wash thyself, paintedst thy eyes, and deckedst thyself with ornaments, 41: And
satest upon a stately bed, and a table prepared before it, whereupon thou hast
set mine incense and mine oil. 42: And a voice of a multitude being at ease was
with her: and with the men of the common sort were brought Sabeans from the
wilderness, which put bracelets upon their hands, and beautiful crowns upon
their heads. 43:
Then said I unto her that was old in adulteries, Will they now commit whoredoms
with her, and she with them? 44: Yet they went in unto her, as they go in unto
a woman that playeth the harlot: so went they in unto Aholah and unto Aholibah,
the lewd women.
It is rather obvious from this passage
what kind of women Aholah and Aholibah were. These women were representatives
of (actually were) the kingdoms of
These were women that strayed from God and
would do anything to please anyone else including prostituting themselves. I
don’t think God would want any woman to act like these did in any way. In both
cases given they painted their eyes.
What does this say about women who wear
makeup? The inference is that women who wear makeup are false, are loose, and
not someone who deserves respect. If you read the whole passage in Ezekiel, you
will see how God punished them and shamed them. If you truly love God with all
your heart, soul, mind, and strength, would you really want to be a shame to
Him?
Now, what does God say about how a person
looks who is wearing makeup? Does it improve their looks in the eyes of God?
Does it make them more acceptable to others? Will it overshadow the other
personal issues a person has? Search out the scriptures for yourself, you will
never find a woman who was wearing makeup that was counted as a woman of God.
All of them were evil.
Let’s read Jeremiah.
Jeremiah 4:30 And when thou art spoiled, what wilt thou do? Though thou clothest thyself with crimson,
though thou deckest thee with ornaments of gold, though thou rentest thy face
with painting, in vain shalt thou make thyself fair; thy lovers will despise
thee, they will seek thy life.
By putting anything on her face she was
“renting” i.e. tearing her face, making it ugly before God. Therefore she is
not more beautiful in the sight of God, she is less attractive. God loves us
just the way we are and when we try to unnaturally improve on what God’s given
us, we’re telling God he didn’t do a good enough job and that we can do better
than him.
God has made us the way we are for a
reason, maybe it’s because we would be too lifted up with pride if we were too
attractive. I don’t pretend to know the reason but we’ll all know in the end.
For those who feel they need things to
protect heir skin, there are sunscreens that can be used without resorting to “makeup”
or “cover-up”. A person could use a skin moisturizer to take care of the
dryness created by the stronger sunscreens if that’s an issue.
Personally, my feeling is that most women
don’t know how to use makeup properly and they’re doing themselves a disservice
by using it to be sure. Those who do it properly may not look bad, but compared
to a woman that’s free from makeup, they look fake and far less appealing. I’ve
always preferred women who didn’t wear makeup to those who do. This was even
before I started going to church. Now that I am in church, I will certainly do
things God’s way.
Now let’s talk about jewelry
1 Peter 3:3-5 Whose adorning let it not be that outward adorning of
plaiting the hair, and of wearing of gold, or of putting on of apparel; But let
it be the hidden man of the heart, in that which is not corruptible, even the
ornament of a meek and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God of great
price. For after this manner in the old time the holy women also, who trusted
in God, adorned themselves, being in subjection unto their own husbands:
Plaiting of the hair is elaborate
braiding. One can do too much to any part of their body, clothing, or
accouterments and it become a pride issue. In this passage gold is forbidden to
be worn, but if you wear too much silver it becomes jewelry because you’re
trying to be a showoff. I don’t want to get anywhere close to being on the
wrong side of what God desires us to do.
If we carefully consider the passage we
just read, what does it say that the true beauty of a woman is? It’s her heart
and her spirit. I’ve found over the course of my life that a beautiful woman
will become less and less attractive each time I’m around her if her attitude
is ugly. I’ve also found that a woman who is less than a raving beauty will
become more and more attractive each time I’m around her if she has a right
heart and spirit.
1 Timothy 2:9-10 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in
modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or
gold, or pearls, or costly array; But (which becometh women professing
godliness) with good works.
A lot of people use the shamefacedness to
promote not wearing makeup but it just means modesty, awe and reverence in the
Greek. That’s why I didn’t include it in the makeup section. However, this
passage shows that women should not wear gold, pearls or excessively expensive
array.
Broided hair was a fashion back in biblical
days (and has recurred since) where a gold tier was placed on a woman’s head
and her hair was laced through it, sometimes with gold chains woven in as well.
It is also a form of elaborate braiding (plaiting) as described by the root
word in the Greek
It also mentions that she wear modest
clothing and be sober minded. In other words she is not to be riotous, a party
animal. Her works are to glorify God; she is to be an example for those who are
younger than she is.
A woman who dresses modestly will be
treated far more respectfully by men than one who is immodest. If a woman shows
too much flesh, men’s minds will be far more likely to be on one thing, a one
night stand. A modest woman is the kind that men want to keep for a lifetime.
Please notice that wearing gold, pearls, and costly array are not considered
being modest.
Let’s look at the issues of
jewelry in the Old Testament:
Ezekiel 33:1-5 And the LORD said unto Moses, Depart, and go up
hence, thou and the people which thou hast brought up out of the land of Egypt,
unto the land which I sware unto Abraham, to Isaac, and to Jacob, saying, Unto
thy seed will I give it: And I will send an angel before thee; and I will drive
out the Canaanite, the Amorite, and the Hittite, and the Perizzite, the Hivite,
and the Jebusite: Unto a land flowing with milk and honey: for I will not go up
in the midst of thee; for thou art a stiffnecked people: lest I consume thee in
the way. And when the people heard these evil tidings, they mourned: and no man did put on him his ornaments. For the LORD had
said unto Moses, Say unto the children of Israel, Ye are a stiffnecked people:
I will come up into the midst of thee in a moment, and consume thee: therefore now put off thy ornaments from thee, that I
may know what to do unto thee.
This was written just after the children
of
Why would we want to put something on that
we would have to pull off again in order to be acceptable before God? Since it
says that “no man did put on him his ornaments” even before God commanded it,
it must mean that it was a known principle even before this time. Why wouldn’t
we want to leave the jewelry off all the time so that we may be holy before God
at all times.
We can also look at Ezekiel 23:40-44 again. Remember that decking themselves
with ornaments was part of their harlotry.
Ezekiel 23:40-44 (Don’t read again unless necessary)
40: And furthermore, that ye have sent for men to come
from far, unto whom a messenger was sent; and, lo, they came: for whom thou
didst wash thyself, paintedst thy eyes, and deckedst thyself with ornaments, 41: And
satest upon a stately bed, and a table prepared before it, whereupon thou hast
set mine incense and mine oil. 42: And a voice of a multitude being at ease was
with her: and with the men of the common sort were brought Sabeans from the
wilderness, which put bracelets upon their hands, and beautiful crowns upon their
heads. 43:
Then said I unto her that was old in adulteries, Will they now commit whoredoms
with her, and she with them? 44: Yet they went in unto her, as they go in unto
a woman that playeth the harlot: so went they in unto Aholah and unto Aholibah,
the lewd women.
Now
let’s look at hair:
One thing that needs to be established
from the beginning is the purpose of hair. Women usually refer to another
woman’s hair as beautiful, or some other description other than a reference to its
length. Men will almost always refer to the beauty of a woman’s hair with the
length of it inclusive in the description.
The biblical
description of a woman’s hair is first given that it is her covering. Let’s
read: 1Corinthians 11:4-6
1Corinthians 11:4-6, 11-16
:4 Every man praying or prophesying, having his head covered,
dishonoreth his head. :5 But every woman that prayeth or prophesieth with her head
uncovered dishonoreth her head: for that is even all one as if she were shaven.
:6 For if the
woman be not covered, let her also be shorn: but if it be a shame for a woman
to be shorn or shaven, let her be covered.
In this
passage; the lack of a covering on the woman is described as being the same
thing as if she were “Shaven”. This word shaven comes from the Greek word “xurao”
(xoo-rah'-o) meaning to “shave” or “shear” the hair:
By inference
this equates a woman cutting her hair with shaving her head. It also equates
shaving or cutting her hair with dishonor and shame because she is removing the
covering she needs to have in order to pray.
For those who
would say Verse
6 says “If it be a shame” Verse 5 has already declared it to be
dishonorable. That which is dishonorable is shameful.
Now let’s look at what’s the
bible says in: 1Corinthians
11:11-16
1Corinthians 11:13 Judge in yourselves: is it comely that a
woman pray unto God uncovered? :14 Doth not even nature itself teach you, that, if a man have long
hair, it is a shame unto him? :15 But if a woman have long hair, it is a glory to her: for her hair
is given her for a covering. :16 But if any man seem to be contentious, we have no such custom,
neither the churches of God.
This passage indicates that it was common
knowledge at the time of it’s writing that it is improper for a woman to pray
uncovered. The word “comely” means “proper or fit” in the Greek. Verse 13 is asking you, is it proper for a woman to pray uncovered? The
obvious answer was given earlier, and it is an emphatic “NO”! Verse 15 tells us that her hair is her glory, and that it is given to her
for her covering. That covering God has given her to wear when she prays to
him.
Verse
14 makes it quite clear that long hair on a
man is against the natural pattern of God, and that it is a shame to him. Those
who would use Verse 16 to say
that the church has no custom of prohibiting long hair on a man are taking the
verse out of context of the passage in which it is contained. To use that
definition, it would be diametrically opposed to what Verse 14 says. Verse
14 defines Verse 16 and Verse 14 makes it clear that the church mentioned in Verse 16 has no such custom of long hair on men.
The bottom line is that because we love
God with all our heart, soul, mind, and strength. We desire to serve Him the
way He has prescribed for us to do so. We don’t do so out of pride, or we have
a bad spirit that God will despise. We do it out of love for our Lord and
Savior Jesus Christ, and we do it gladly, not grudgingly.
This is not, nor did
I ever intend it to be an “end all” study of holiness of dress, nor does it
address spiritual holiness. There is much more on this subject, but that would
make it a book and not a short bible study.